First off, I just want to say I stumbled by your site by accident–well, kind of; I was trying to figure out which tie to get for my outfit–and I'm so glad I did. Your site absolutely rocks. Men need your help! Without you, we'd just pair blue with blue, red with red, etc. That is no way to live!

My groomsmen are in black, two-button suits with white shirts. I need to find ties and pocket squares for me and them. I'd like them to have ties and squares that match the bridesmaids in some way. As for me, I just want to (a) look good, (b) stand out from the groomsmen, and (c) not stick out in a bad way.

Best, Adrian
Here are my thoughts (and I am slightly rushed here due to the Holidays). After the holidays, i.e. Sunday, I hope to be back full swing! See you then :-) For the Groomsmen with the white shirts I thought to go this way. They can afford the colored squares, and the square gets toned down with the tie which is black and Orange in the warp and weft and gives the impression of a speckled orange. The closeup tells a better story. (forget about suit style , 2 or three button. Here we are concerned with color)
Shown here in the pocket and in play:
If you are looking for some more color then you can go this way:
For the groom, I chose a more simple yet very rich Orange twill weave shown here and with the off white linen square to match the ecru shirt chosen:
Of course I would be remiss if I were to not bring in one of my all time favorite ties, the raw silk stripe against the bronzy rust silk, shown here with the always elegant white linen square.